Emotions and Perceptions Live Fearlessly

Good, Better, Best?

We put a great deal of effort into striving to be “good” or to “better ourselves” or to be our “best self” which of course, are noble goals and seem to be worthy of our effort. But in our quest to be good, better or best, what happens to who we are right now, in THIS very moment?

Personally, I find it all too easy to lose sight of the fact that I really am enough just as I am today. When I’m reminded of it, my first reaction is to question it and actually argue it in my head. “But I should do more of this and less of that and be more like so and so.” But what if we STOP and quiet those thoughts and just let ourselves BE ENOUGH for today? What do you think would happen?

For me, it calms me down, it centers me in Spirit and most of all, it allows me to feel joyful. When I’m not reminding myself of my faults and what I “should be like” a lightness overcomes me and it feels like relief. I believe this is the state we are all meant to live in each day….many of us have just forgotten it in our quest to reach the goals. The funny thing is, when I’m in this state, I act much more in line with my goals with a lot less effort! Have you noticed this to be true for yourself too?

Let’s not wait until we are at certain weight to allow ourselves to feel we are enough. Or wait until we have achieved some certain status or accomplishment. You really are more than enough just as you are in this moment, as you read these words. Take a second right now to pause and think about it. Let it sink in. How does it make you feel? When you hear it or read it, can’t you feel the truth of it deep down inside? You really are enough right now and so am I. Isn’t that exciting?? Don’t talk yourself out of it.

Love you all! Hope to see you out and about or at Weight Watchers this week!! If I can be of any help to you, don’t hesitate to reach out!

All is well❤️


Terra Ayres, Agent Owner/Broker

Stone Tower Properties, powered by eXp Realty


Text: 630.921.5706

Weight Watchers Leader Schedule

Tuesday’s Schaumburg 10am

Thursday’s Geneva 530pm

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  • Julie Tucker
    March 7, 2018 at 7:45 am

    Truer words were never said Terra… Thank you for sharing these insightful thoughts! When we feel good about ourselves it emanates off of us and that positive energy reaches out and touches those around us. When we love and accept ourselves right now, in the moment, we are not only helping ourselves but also all those around us. What a wonderful way to start the day! Thanks again Terra, you are an inspiring person who touches others lives in a very positive way and I am blessed to know you! ❤️❤️

  • Kathy
    March 6, 2018 at 2:41 pm

    So true well said, thank you❤️

    • Terra
      March 7, 2018 at 7:39 am

      You’re welcome. Thanks for posting a comment

  • Valerie
    March 6, 2018 at 11:25 am

    Where does the Geneva group meet on Thursdays?

    • Terra
      March 6, 2018 at 11:30 am

      Hi Valerie! The Thursday meeting I lead is at the Geneva Weight Watchers Store located at 1492 S Randall Rd in Geneva. It’s in the same strip mall as McCallister’s Deli and just a parking lot away from Michaels. Hope that helps? Love to see you there this Thursday. Doors open at 5pm for weigh in and meeting starts at 530pm

  • Vickie
    March 6, 2018 at 9:17 am

    So true and so well said!!! Thank you

    • Terra
      March 6, 2018 at 11:32 am


  • Cole Carlson
    March 6, 2018 at 8:52 am

    Today is going to be a great day. Positivity all around.

    • Terra
      March 6, 2018 at 11:30 am


  • Amy
    March 6, 2018 at 8:35 am

    Such a GREAT and important reminder. For our kids as well!!

    • Terra
      March 6, 2018 at 11:31 am


  • Cheryl
    March 6, 2018 at 8:31 am

    You are a gift to us all, Terra!

    • Terra
      March 6, 2018 at 11:31 am

      So kind❤️ Thank u!

  • Tracie
    March 6, 2018 at 8:18 am

    What a perfect affirmation for us all this morning !! Thank you for sharing !

    • Terra
      March 6, 2018 at 11:31 am